WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

 

Do you ever ask yourself what makes you happier in a relationship, sharing or sacrificing?

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A relationship is all about making choices, feeling pain, enduring sacrifices, respecting each other’s privacy, growing up and living life to its fullest.

Togetherness is the fundamental nature, but at what cost? What really makes you happy and comfortable in a relationship sharing or sacrificing? What are the major secrets of a happy couple? And what really forms happiness in relationships?

In other to sustain the bond and make happiness a lifestyle in a relationship, there are certain things one needs to sacrifice. The first step, get rid of ‘ME’. There is no such thing called ‘ME’ in a relationship, you must learn that ME time becomes ‘OUR’ time.

You must be ready to act like a team, your independent goals may get side-lined and your partnership at this point becomes a reality.  Consequently, decision making comes as a paired activity. To build a strong partnership you must be open to bending a little bit to improve yourself and surrender to the one you love. Amongst sharing or sacrificing, you choose to sacrifice.

Sharing, if you believe the popular saying about sharing and caring then you know precisely what makes you happy with your partner. Sharing is exactly as it sounds, sharing your lives with one another.

Sharing could take different forms; physical, emotional and intellectual sharing. If your relationship must survive then there needs to be a sharing in every part of life, by both parties.

Going back to the question of the day, what makes you happier in a relationship sacrificing or sharing? To share is to sacrifice, to share is to let your guards down and let your partner in. Allow yourself to connect physically spiritually and emotionally that is sharing and sacrificing.