Toyosi Etim-Effiong’s Advice to Single Women is Something You Definitely Should Read!
If you don’t know who Toyosi Etim-Effiong is, allow us to introduce her. She is a media personality & entrepreneur who is about to launch her first book. But more on that later. To celebrate her 3-year anniversary, Toyosi is sharing some much-needed nuggets for all the single ladies in the building.
Now, why should you take anything she says to heart? After all, this might be the first time you’re hearing of her or reading anything she’s written. Well, while Toyosi is in the media and does have her own business, she’s also REAL. If you take a look at her Instagram page (granted, Instagram isn’t the best place for the REAL), you’ll see what we’re talking about. From sharing stories from her childhood to engaging with her followers, Toyosi Etim-Effiong has been/is passionate about identity. And is very real & raw about it.
So, if you’re still wondering if she’s worth your time, perhaps her advice for single women below will convince you. Toyosi took to her Instagram page to share the following nuggets;
Take Your Time
Marriage is not a green, blue and red passport to heaven, nobody has given us free groceries at a store because we are married, in fact, this marriage race ehn, dem no dey catch late comer…..Take your time but don’t waste your time.
Nobody is Perfect
Nobody is perfect, chose your own perfect…I know we all want the ‘TDH with the full 6-12packs seff, but I promise you if this specimen has a horrible character, doesn’t honour God and Loves you, his bicep won’t matter……you won’t even notice it when you’re a shadow of yourself in his house. Who bicep and fine face epp pls?
Wait on God
Pray a discerning spirit and ask the holy spirit to help you…Some people will just be sleek anyhow, but something in your spirit will just not gel…It’s God using your soul to lead you.
Be Open
Don’t sit down in your house and be screaming you’re single…Before nkor? Who should be single if not you? 😭😭🙆🏾♀️🤔 Except you want to marry a Nepa official who will come and knock on your door, go out and meet people, be open-minded and be friendly….Don’t be squeezing your face upandan and be wondering why everyone thinks you’re a ghost”, He who wants friends must first be friendly.
Work on You
Take time out to Dote, Love and take care of yourself. Be the best version of yourself per time, be your Specs specs biko….All of you looking for specs that are not your specs becuz your spec will not blink twice when they see you….Pls do the work and keep upgrading your soft and hardware 😭😭😂😂
