Why is my virginity such a turn off for guys?
I was born into a Christian home and during one of the numerous Christian youth camps i attended growing up, we were made to vow to keep our virginity till we got married. We were also told that we can always remind God of this vow in times of difficulties to get help help from Him.
To say i haven’t been tempted so far would be a lie. i once almost swayed off the vow by making out with a guy from my university. Afterwards, different things started going wrong e.g my grades were dropping and all. I know this sounds cheesy and God isn’t that vindictive but i still believe its because i almost broke that vow.
I’m now 22 years old, currently serving my country (NYSC) and I’ve been meeting a couple of really cool guys.
Most of the guys i’ve been meeting believe that i’m either not telling the truth about being a virgin or I’m just outrightly absurd.
My last ‘almost relationship’ ended the same way the other 3 in the past had. The guys all start off saying its no big deal for them, but before i know it, they start pulling away. Some have been honest enough to tell me that though they like me, they just can’t deal with me being a virgin.
I’m becoming worried and most of my girlfriends tease me to just try it out with a guy i really like.
Is any man worth breaking my vow to God? i really don’t know anymore!
Is this virginity now a plague instead of a blessing?
I’ve found it very difficult to discuss this issue with people that can really advise me because its a little embarrassing, thats why I’m sharing it anonymously on this blog. Please help me
I totally get how you feel. However, you have to understand that the right person for you is definitely going to appreciate your values and everything that you hold dear. Nobody is worth lowering your standards for especially when they are standards that have strong reasons. Remember that you are not keeping your virginity because of a man you may meet in future, but because you intend to keep having a strong relationship with God. Keep that in mind, and he would see you through.
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